Why is silence the best revenge?
Silence speaks volumes
Believe it, the silence and zero reaction really bothers your ex, and they consider it as the best served revenge. Nothing creates more curiosity than silence. Your ex would expect a vent or an angry rant from you, but don't give in. If you do, you are meeting their expectations.
Being silent allows us to channel our energies. It gives us the clarity we need to calmly face challenges and uncertainty. The hour of silence I practice each morning, and encourage you to practice as well, can be a time for collecting our thoughts, training our minds, and deciding how we want to enter into the day.
Success is the best revenge. Or that's the common thought at least. This means your life needs purpose and you must strive for important goals. By setting high standards for yourself and working to achieve them, your success can deliver you what you want.
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Take care of yourself.
- Allow yourself to experience and deal with your emotions. If you need to feel pain, do so. ...
- Do things that make you happy. Go out and see a movie with friends. ...
- Sometimes, being happy can be a form of revenge in and of itself.
Silence. Silence is so much more deadly in a relationship than any argument. When someone is silent, it means they don't feel the relationship is worth fighting for. When your partner grows silent, it means they have resorted to having their own internal monologue instead of talking things through with you.
Remember, silence is a key after you've just broken up. It helps re-establish your bond while allowing both you and your partner to think. So, instead of texting and making phone calls, be absolutely silent. Do not reach out to him, and if he tries to do so, simply ignore him.
Silence is used as a weapon to cut off meaningful conversations, stop the flow of information, and ultimately hurt the other person. In fact, research shows that ignoring or excluding someone activates the same area of the brain that is activated by physical pain.
The silent treatment (also known as withholding) is used to punish and regain control of a person. It may feel good to ignore your partner when you feel slighted but, it keeps you from finding real solutions to the problems that are bugging you the most. I've been on both sides of the silent treatment.
The best revenge is actually not taking any revenge at all. It's not even holding on to any anger at all. It's moving on with your life. It's showing them that life is so much better after they're gone.
Ultimate Revenge is a reality TV program about fulfilling the fantasy of anyone who wants to seek revenge on their nearest and dearest. Elaborate practical jokes were played on family and friends instigated by their own relatives and friends. It was hosted by Ryan Seacrest.
What is the sweetest revenge?
The sweetest revenge for evil behavior is kindness in return. This idea is as infectious as acting harshly to those who mistreat us or others.
Often the silent treatment is about enacting revenge on someone who hurt you. And while revenge might sound dramatic, when we are hurt by someone and then choose to hurt them that's exactly what we're doing…getting revenge.
It sends a clear message that you won't allow the breakup to take hold of your life, giving you a chance to find perspective and heal. Lastly, whether you want to get back with your ex or not, the power of silence is guaranteed to make them miss you!
Silence is a powerful sword. We can use silence to increase our understanding and learn more about the people around us. When used out of love, it can show that we care deeply enough to listen with the intent to understand and need to absorb what was said before we reply.
Sometimes, a person may give someone the silent treatment because they are too angry, hurt, or overwhelmed to speak. They may be afraid of saying something that makes the situation worse. In these cases, it can be helpful for each person to take some time to cool off before getting together to discuss the issue calmly.
