Woman Gets The Last Laugh By Not Leaving Money For Her Money-Hungry Estranged Daughter, Leaving Her A Message In Her Will: “You Still Owe Me 14 Dollars” (2024)

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Jurgita Dominauskaitė

Saulė Tolstych

Kathryn Baylis

For those blaming Grandma for her three kids turning out to be addicts, you’re forgetting something really important. Those children had a father, who could’ve been the source of the DNA (nature) for their addictive personalities, and/or an abusive home life (nurture) that may have tipped the scales toward addiction as an escape. Remember, IP said Grandma was very hardworking, so Grandpa may have been a deadbeat drunk/addict, and she had to be the breadwinner. That also takes her out of the house for hours a day. Plus, her head for finances may have stemmed from watching every penny, to know if her husband was stealing from her. It’s possible that, by the time she took in her grandchildren, Grandpa had died, or she had kicked his a*s to the curb, so that generation didn’t have the same exposure to drugs/alcohol plus the kind of home life a deadbeat drunk/junkie would provide—-at least after they left their junkie parents. So quit blaming the hardworking mother and look toward the possibly deadbeat drunk/junkie father to lay the blame on.

Doctor Strange

Believe it or not, this is actually an important lesson in wills. If you want to leave someone out of your will, DON'T just ignore them. Leave them something like a single penny, or other ridiculous thing. Because if someone is not in the will, they can actually argue in a court of law that it was an oversight, and be awarded an equal share of inheritence. By deliberately leaving something to the person, such as a penny, they have no legal argument to try and claim anything.

Winter

I think we are missing some key pieces to this family equation. I strongly doubt the mother was the 2-dimensional scumbag she seems to be portrayed to be. And I also doubt the grandma was simply a golden hearted hero. I suspect that the sentiments of the op are strongly influenced by the sentiments of the grandma. Grandma resents aunt J, and so does op. Idunno. It's all assumptive. Like I said, we don't have the whole story.

Kathryn Baylis

For those blaming Grandma for her three kids turning out to be addicts, you’re forgetting something really important. Those children had a father, who could’ve been the source of the DNA (nature) for their addictive personalities, and/or an abusive home life (nurture) that may have tipped the scales toward addiction as an escape. Remember, IP said Grandma was very hardworking, so Grandpa may have been a deadbeat drunk/addict, and she had to be the breadwinner. That also takes her out of the house for hours a day. Plus, her head for finances may have stemmed from watching every penny, to know if her husband was stealing from her. It’s possible that, by the time she took in her grandchildren, Grandpa had died, or she had kicked his a*s to the curb, so that generation didn’t have the same exposure to drugs/alcohol plus the kind of home life a deadbeat drunk/junkie would provide—-at least after they left their junkie parents. So quit blaming the hardworking mother and look toward the possibly deadbeat drunk/junkie father to lay the blame on.

Doctor Strange

Believe it or not, this is actually an important lesson in wills. If you want to leave someone out of your will, DON'T just ignore them. Leave them something like a single penny, or other ridiculous thing. Because if someone is not in the will, they can actually argue in a court of law that it was an oversight, and be awarded an equal share of inheritence. By deliberately leaving something to the person, such as a penny, they have no legal argument to try and claim anything.

Winter

I think we are missing some key pieces to this family equation. I strongly doubt the mother was the 2-dimensional scumbag she seems to be portrayed to be. And I also doubt the grandma was simply a golden hearted hero. I suspect that the sentiments of the op are strongly influenced by the sentiments of the grandma. Grandma resents aunt J, and so does op. Idunno. It's all assumptive. Like I said, we don't have the whole story.