Guy Learns That His Girlfriend Is A Landlord, Demands Half Of Her Rental Income (2024)

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As Reddit user CapableEmergency5154‘s recent case shows, this can be quite difficult. Talking to the ‘Am I the [Jerk]?’ community, the woman recalled the fight that broke out between her and her now-ex-boyfriend after he found out that she’s a landlord.

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Guy Learns That His Girlfriend Is A Landlord, Demands Half Of Her Rental Income (2)

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Psycho, controlling, manipulative. This is 6 months into a relationship. Imagine how he would be a year, 2 years, after getting married? Get out, stay out or you will end up a DV victim and trapped too deep to escape. She sounds too nice (I can relate) and that is exactly who these scumbags look for. He was expecting her to cave in and I am so happy she didn't. I can't believe he was just waiting there like a lunatic "are you ready to apologize?" I am really nice and tend to be a pushover until you push one of my "psycho b***h" buttons and this would have surely done it. I would have burst into hysterical hyena laughter and started screaming at him to get the f**k out and never come back again.

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Not to condemn OP at all, because she’s young and was in love, and you don’t have the best judgement in that situation. But I really think it was foolish to let a boyfriend she’d been dating for only 3 months move in with her. I don’t care how in love you are, wait at least a year before bringing it up. Her boyfriend, who she didn’t know very well, turned out to be an abusive psycho, and I’m glad she’s now safe.

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Sounds like the kind of crazy I went through with my ex. When he found out I owned my trailer (still had to pay lot rent) he started trashing it. (And then me.) I was such a pathetic pushover, I couldn't get away from him. When I did, it took moving out for 3 months while I formally evicted him. And then he DESTROYED my place. Urinating on the carpet, the furniture, stealing the stuff I couldn't move with me. Police refused to help me. I can see this level of insanity in this woman's boyfriend as well. Glad she got out before the literal shịt hit the fan.

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Never say to others nor think that you are a pathetic pushover. The things you wouldn’t say about your friends you shouldn’t say about yourself. You were in a nasty situation but you survived and learned from it so you will recognise this behaviour from a guy faster.

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Bye you little shít stain! Enjoy renting…

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Gonna be a shock when his next landlord won't give him half either.

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Psycho, controlling, manipulative. This is 6 months into a relationship. Imagine how he would be a year, 2 years, after getting married? Get out, stay out or you will end up a DV victim and trapped too deep to escape. She sounds too nice (I can relate) and that is exactly who these scumbags look for. He was expecting her to cave in and I am so happy she didn't. I can't believe he was just waiting there like a lunatic "are you ready to apologize?" I am really nice and tend to be a pushover until you push one of my "psycho b***h" buttons and this would have surely done it. I would have burst into hysterical hyena laughter and started screaming at him to get the f**k out and never come back again.

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Not to condemn OP at all, because she’s young and was in love, and you don’t have the best judgement in that situation. But I really think it was foolish to let a boyfriend she’d been dating for only 3 months move in with her. I don’t care how in love you are, wait at least a year before bringing it up. Her boyfriend, who she didn’t know very well, turned out to be an abusive psycho, and I’m glad she’s now safe.

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Sounds like the kind of crazy I went through with my ex. When he found out I owned my trailer (still had to pay lot rent) he started trashing it. (And then me.) I was such a pathetic pushover, I couldn't get away from him. When I did, it took moving out for 3 months while I formally evicted him. And then he DESTROYED my place. Urinating on the carpet, the furniture, stealing the stuff I couldn't move with me. Police refused to help me. I can see this level of insanity in this woman's boyfriend as well. Glad she got out before the literal shịt hit the fan.

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Never say to others nor think that you are a pathetic pushover. The things you wouldn’t say about your friends you shouldn’t say about yourself. You were in a nasty situation but you survived and learned from it so you will recognise this behaviour from a guy faster.

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Bye you little shít stain! Enjoy renting…

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Gonna be a shock when his next landlord won't give him half either.

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Who should pay rent in a relationship? ›

You can both still pay for household expenses even if you keep your finances separate. Create a household budget to cover rent, utilities, groceries, and more. How you pay for these bills comes down to you. Some couples choose to divide the utilities and take them on separately.

What is the politically correct term for landlord? ›

The term “landlord” is becoming obsolete. It has a negative connotation, so the new vernacular is a housing provider. We've had our internal debate about this and decided to use both terms. While the vast majority of owners are wonderful people, being called a "landlord" comes with a certain stigma.

What do you call a person who rents an apartment? ›

A lessee is a person who rents land or property from a lessor. The lessee is also known as the “tenant” and must uphold specific obligations as defined in the lease agreement and by law. The lease is a legally binding document, and if the lessee violates its terms they could be evicted.

Where did the name landlord come from? ›

“Landlord” is used to refer to a person who rents out their property, often regardless of gender. The term landlord derives from Old English landhlaford, which was the equivalent of “land + lord.” Unlike many modern terms, landlord has a very straightforward etymology.

Should rent be 50 50 in a relationship? ›

'It's almost not fair to split finances 50-50'

For example, one partner may be saddled with student loan or credit card debt while the other partner is not. The latter may have the financial strength to carry rental or mortgage expenses so the other person can focus on paying down their liabilities, said Daigle.

How should rent be split in a relationship? ›

Split Rent 50/50

The obvious way to split rent is for each partner to pay exactly half of the bill each month. This can keep it simple, with each person having an even share in housing costs. For example, if you find an apartment that costs $1,800 per month, each partner would contribute $900.

What do you call a female landlord? ›

Landlady is a female owner of the real property, who leases or rents a piece of land to a tenant. Landlady is essentially the same as a landlord, other than the gender. Like landlord, landlady is the owner of the property.

What is the female word for landlord? ›

Landlady: The word 'landlady' means a woman who owns a piece of property, plot, building, flat or other equivalent and is subject to receive rent for her possession. This word is the feminine form of the word 'landlord'. Therefore, this is the correct option.

What is a nickname for a bad landlord? ›

A slumlord (or slum landlord) is a slang term for a landlord, generally an absentee landlord with more than one property, who attempts to maximize profit by minimizing spending on property maintenance, and to tenants that they can intimidate.

What do you call someone who doesn't pay rent? ›

A delinquent tenant is one who does not pay his rent.

What is it called when someone doesn't pay rent? ›

Being “in rent arrears” is a legal phrase used to describe being late on rent. Tenants in arrears are behind on their rent payments, and they could face eviction depending on their lease agreement and the situational terms.

What is difference between occupant and tenant? ›

Tenant: An individual who has signed a lease agreement with the property owner, legally binding them to adhere to the terms outlined, including payment obligations and care for the property. Occupant: Anyone residing in a property without a legal agreement with the owner.

Are landlords Lords? ›

In a historic democracy like the United States, the term landlord is interesting. From the Old English meaning “master of a household, ruler, feudal lord, superior” to the Middle Ages, when feudal lords owned the land on which tenant farmers worked, “landlord” meant the power to dominate.

What do Americans call a landlord? ›

In the United States landlord is still the correct term, it is synonymous with property owner.

Is landlord a job title? ›

Being a landlord is not technically considered an occupation by the Bureau of Labor Statistics. And though most people may agree that being a property manager or a real estate agent is a job, many landlords are neither property managers nor real estate agents.

Should your boyfriend pay your rent? ›

You need to pay for your housing, whether to a landlord, a rental agency, or your boyfriend. It's reasonable to pay a portion of the monthly obligations on the home and to split utilities the way you would with any roommate.

Should I let my girlfriend pay rent? ›

You shouldn't have to “charge rent” or even ask for money towards bills. If your partner agrees to move in with you and they respect you and your relationship, they should fully expect to contribute financially. This should all be discussed and hashed out before your partner ever agrees to move in.

Should my gf help pay rent? ›

It shouldn't matter if it is your house or not, she should be contributing to the household finances in some way... paying the bills, groceries, etc. Don't do it so you cash flow, do it because if you are both living there, you both should be contributing to the expenses.

Should my boyfriend pay more rent if he makes more money? ›

If they are together for the long run (so they should be talking about getting married), then paying based more on salary is reasonable. I'd also add that if both parties have zero problem paying their portion of the rent while still making their other bills and saving goals, then just split it in half.

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