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That being said, people don’t just unload everything to someone the moment they get involved. Becoming open happens progressively, and the tricky part for a couple is to adjust to the same timeframe.
As Reddit user CapableEmergency5154‘s recent case shows, this can be quite difficult. Talking to the ‘Am I the [Jerk]?’ community, the woman recalled the fight that broke out between her and her now-ex-boyfriend after he found out that she’s a landlord.
Financial incompatibility is a common problem among romantic partners
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But, sadly, this woman learned about it the hard way
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Nice Beast Ludo Nice Beast Ludo Community Member Follow
Psycho, controlling, manipulative. This is 6 months into a relationship. Imagine how he would be a year, 2 years, after getting married? Get out, stay out or you will end up a DV victim and trapped too deep to escape. She sounds too nice (I can relate) and that is exactly who these scumbags look for. He was expecting her to cave in and I am so happy she didn't. I can't believe he was just waiting there like a lunatic "are you ready to apologize?" I am really nice and tend to be a pushover until you push one of my "psycho b***h" buttons and this would have surely done it. I would have burst into hysterical hyena laughter and started screaming at him to get the f**k out and never come back again.
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Historyharlot93 Historyharlot93 Community Member Follow
Not to condemn OP at all, because she’s young and was in love, and you don’t have the best judgement in that situation. But I really think it was foolish to let a boyfriend she’d been dating for only 3 months move in with her. I don’t care how in love you are, wait at least a year before bringing it up. Her boyfriend, who she didn’t know very well, turned out to be an abusive psycho, and I’m glad she’s now safe.
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TheBlueBitterfly TheBlueBitterfly Community Member Follow
Sounds like the kind of crazy I went through with my ex. When he found out I owned my trailer (still had to pay lot rent) he started trashing it. (And then me.) I was such a pathetic pushover, I couldn't get away from him. When I did, it took moving out for 3 months while I formally evicted him. And then he DESTROYED my place. Urinating on the carpet, the furniture, stealing the stuff I couldn't move with me. Police refused to help me. I can see this level of insanity in this woman's boyfriend as well. Glad she got out before the literal shịt hit the fan.
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Annabelle Annabelle Community Member Follow
Never say to others nor think that you are a pathetic pushover. The things you wouldn’t say about your friends you shouldn’t say about yourself. You were in a nasty situation but you survived and learned from it so you will recognise this behaviour from a guy faster.
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ThatG ThatG Community Member
Bye you little shít stain! Enjoy renting…
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Julie Stevens Julie Stevens Community Member Follow
Gonna be a shock when his next landlord won't give him half either.
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Nice Beast Ludo Nice Beast Ludo Community Member Follow
Psycho, controlling, manipulative. This is 6 months into a relationship. Imagine how he would be a year, 2 years, after getting married? Get out, stay out or you will end up a DV victim and trapped too deep to escape. She sounds too nice (I can relate) and that is exactly who these scumbags look for. He was expecting her to cave in and I am so happy she didn't. I can't believe he was just waiting there like a lunatic "are you ready to apologize?" I am really nice and tend to be a pushover until you push one of my "psycho b***h" buttons and this would have surely done it. I would have burst into hysterical hyena laughter and started screaming at him to get the f**k out and never come back again.
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Historyharlot93 Historyharlot93 Community Member Follow
Not to condemn OP at all, because she’s young and was in love, and you don’t have the best judgement in that situation. But I really think it was foolish to let a boyfriend she’d been dating for only 3 months move in with her. I don’t care how in love you are, wait at least a year before bringing it up. Her boyfriend, who she didn’t know very well, turned out to be an abusive psycho, and I’m glad she’s now safe.
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TheBlueBitterfly TheBlueBitterfly Community Member Follow
Sounds like the kind of crazy I went through with my ex. When he found out I owned my trailer (still had to pay lot rent) he started trashing it. (And then me.) I was such a pathetic pushover, I couldn't get away from him. When I did, it took moving out for 3 months while I formally evicted him. And then he DESTROYED my place. Urinating on the carpet, the furniture, stealing the stuff I couldn't move with me. Police refused to help me. I can see this level of insanity in this woman's boyfriend as well. Glad she got out before the literal shịt hit the fan.
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Annabelle Annabelle Community Member Follow
Never say to others nor think that you are a pathetic pushover. The things you wouldn’t say about your friends you shouldn’t say about yourself. You were in a nasty situation but you survived and learned from it so you will recognise this behaviour from a guy faster.
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ThatG ThatG Community Member
Bye you little shít stain! Enjoy renting…
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Julie Stevens Julie Stevens Community Member Follow
Gonna be a shock when his next landlord won't give him half either.
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